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		<title>&#8216;Criminal record? Don&#8217;t apply for this job&#8217;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2015 05:59:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>March 7, 2015 • By Dennis Beaver Care to guess the population of Houston, Texas? Here’s a hint: The same number of people are in U.S. prisons, about 2.2 million, and that is a world record. That’s right, our country has more people in prison than any other, according to the United States Department of Justice. Of [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-27" style="margin-left: 8px; border: 1px solid black;" src="https://dennisbeaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/DennisBeaver-193x300.jpg" alt="DennisBeaver" width="193" height="300" srcset="https://dennisbeaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/DennisBeaver-193x300.jpg 193w, https://dennisbeaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/DennisBeaver.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 193px) 100vw, 193px" />March 7, 2015 • By Dennis Beaver</p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">Care to guess the population of Houston, Texas? Here’s a hint: The same number of people are in U.S. prisons, about 2.2 million, and that is a world record.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">That’s right, our country has more people in prison than any other, according to the United States Department of Justice.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">Of that 2.2 million inmate population, about 150,000 are serving life sentences which means that the others will pay their debt to society by doing time and then released, stepping into the sunshine, finding a decent job, having learned their lesson, never to return.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">Of course I was told that by the Tooth Fairy who apparently never heard of the terms recidivism rate or repeat offender. While the figures do vary depending upon the types of crimes committed, within three years, from 60 percent to 80 percent of people sentenced to prison will re-offend.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">In many cases, because of something on a job application form, and, as we learned:</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“They may have been released, but so many are, practically speaking, still locked up, inside an invisible prison due to a small box on a job application asking if they had ever been convicted of a crime,” we were told by an assistant warden who holds a law degree and has over 20 years experience at well known West Coast prison. We will just call him “Warden Jack.”</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1"><b>“We failed to anticipate the consequences of this growth industry</b>”</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“As a nation, we failed to anticipate the consequences of a nation which keeps so many people behind bars. When prison building became a growth industry, little thought was given to ways of helping inmates truly re-enter society through employment.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“Professionals in this field openly discuss the fact that the ‘lock’em up and throw away the key’ attitude is working well indeed as a round-trip ticket, back to prison.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“A huge problem is that many employers will not hire anyone who has a criminal record, even when the offense has nothing to do with the job. This attitude is fanning the flames of recidivism.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“If you want to know what drives wardens crazy, it’s seeing a guy who got an education in prison, has ability, grew up, and could become a productive member of society, but that job application form or a background check disqualifies him from employment. Add to that being a minority, and the deck is even more stacked against the inmate,” Warden Jack maintains.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1"><b>Rejecting all applicants with criminal records can be</b> <b>discrimination</b></span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“The saying, Hire the best — Reject the rest, is something that most employers live by. It is common sense — employers only want to best employees. However, today, following this motto could become an expensive legal nightmare, as employers find themselves running afoul of federal laws prohibiting discrimination,” Nashville, Tennessee-based employment attorney Jennifer Lankford makes clear to the lawyers who attend her National Business Institute seminars.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“Dennis, you would be surprised at the number of employers who are engaging in employment discrimination without intending to or even aware that they are doing so,” she explains.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“We call this disparate impact discrimination and it often results from what on the surface appears to be a reasonable, neutral policy — treating everyone the same — but which disproportionately screens out a legally protected group, such as racial minorities.”</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“It is well established that African Americans and Latinos are arrested and convicted disproportionately than their numerical representation in the population. When an employer has a blanket policy of not hiring anyone with a criminal conviction — even when the crime has no relation to the job — then more minorities than white applicants are being screened out. This is a classic example of disparate impact discrimination.”</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">We asked Lankford if this means that an employer must hire any minority who shows up, regardless of having a nasty criminal past.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“Employment attorneys hear that question often, and the answer is that you do not have to close your eyes to a person’s criminal past. But, you need to demonstrate that your policy of exclusion is job related and consistent with a business necessity.&#8221; Employers should consider:</span></p>
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<li class="li2"><span class="s1">Requirements of the job</span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s1">What the person was convicted of</span></li>
<li class="li2"><span class="s1">The time that has passed since the conviction.</span></li>
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<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“These questions demonstrate whether the exclusionary policy is truly relevant to the underlying job position. As you might imagine, if the person has a history of theft offenses and is looking for a job as a cashier, the person is not suited for employment.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">“However, if the applicant had a minor drug offense, years ago, the exclusion is less justifiable,” Lankford concluded.</span></p>
<p class="p4"><span class="s1">For our employer-readers, we suggest a review of your hiring practices by an attorney who specializes in Employment Law. Running a business is no piece of cake.</span></p>
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<p>Dennis Beaver practices law in Bakersfield and enjoys hearing from his readers. <a href="https://dennisbeaver.com/contact/">Contact Dennis Beaver.</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jan 2013 07:13:21 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>May 22, 2010 (Original publish date) • By Dennis Beaver For readers who are on medication for high blood pressure &#8211; especially anyone who has ever worked in a restaurant &#8211; it might be a good idea to have extra tablets handy before reading today&#8217;s story. You might need them, and will certainly be asking these [&#8230;]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignright wp-image-27" style="margin-left: 8px; border: 1px solid black;" src="https://dennisbeaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/DennisBeaver-193x300.jpg" alt="DennisBeaver" width="193" height="300" srcset="https://dennisbeaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/DennisBeaver-193x300.jpg 193w, https://dennisbeaver.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/DennisBeaver.jpg 300w" sizes="(max-width: 193px) 100vw, 193px" />May 22, 2010 (Original publish date) • By Dennis Beaver</p>
<p>For readers who are on medication for high blood pressure &#8211; especially anyone who has ever worked in a restaurant &#8211; it might be a good idea to have extra tablets handy before reading today&#8217;s story. You might need them, and will certainly be asking these questions:</p>
<p>&#8220;Why are we paying unemployment insurance judges close to $10,000 a month to toss common sense out the window and give benefits to people who obviously do not deserve them? When employers and former co-workers stand up for what is legally and morally right, why does it seem so often they are facing judges on a mission to reward rotten behavior?&#8221;</p>
<p>Our story began in January 2009, when Karen (names have been changed) began work as a waitress at Freddie&#8217;s, a small, family-owned, restaurant, similar to an IHOP or Denny&#8217;s. Especially in these types of restaurants, servers are key employees.</p>
<p>&#8220;Servers do not simply take orders and bring plates to tables. They are integral to the success of that business,&#8221; observes Martha Keller, who teaches Hospitality Management at the Culinary Institute of America, Greystone campus in St. Helena.</p>
<p>&#8220;Research shows that if guests receive exceptional service, but the food is marginal, they will return because of the service, hoping the food gets better. However, regardless of how good the food is, if service is poor, they will not return and will tell others to stay away,&#8221; she points out.</p>
<p>Never justified to yell at a customer</p>
<p>Skokie, Ill.-based Lloyd Gordon of GEC Consultants has spent more than 40 years in the hospitality industry, and routinely testifies as an expert witness. When I asked him if it is ever permissible for a waitress to lose her temper and yell at a customer, his answer was brief:</p>
<p>&#8220;Never! The first time that this happened, if we kept the employee, they would be told if it ever occurred again, they would be terminated for cause. Should that take place, I would object to their request for unemployment insurance. Yelling at customers or treating them disrespectfully is the same as stealing from the employer. It should not be rewarded with unemployment insurance benefits.&#8221;</p>
<p>‘We look in the window to see if she is working&#8217;</p>
<p>Within days of starting her job at Freddie&#8217;s, Karen lost her temper and yelled at a customer. Instead of immediate termination, the owner wanted to give her another chance.</p>
<p>&#8220;Anyone can have a bad day,&#8221; Freddie reasoned. &#8220;Times are tough and it is always difficult to find good staff. I always feel that you need to give a person extra time to prove themselves,&#8221; he reasoned. (His kindness would prove to be the classic mistake made by so many employers.)</p>
<p>Things remained calm until the summer, when there were two episodes of over-the-top rudeness and downright frightening behavior.</p>
<p>In one situation, two elderly women, long time customers, ordered a cappuccino, &#8220;Which is always served in a tall, mug-type cup. But Karen used a regular sized coffee cup and only filled it half way, leaving out the whipped cream,&#8221; the customers stated.</p>
<p>&#8220;When we asked her for a correctly-filled mug with whipped cream &#8211; the way they always serve cappuccino &#8211; she rudely refused. In a very nasty and frightening tone of voice, she said that she could not fill it up, and that this is all they are allowed to give the customers.&#8221;</p>
<p>The women were so frightened of Karen doing something to them, that they begged the restaurant&#8217;s attorney to keep their names confidential.</p>
<p>Karen&#8217;s threatening behavior worsened.</p>
<p>Longtime customers Mario, Angela and their daughter, Sandy, came to the restaurant for lunch. After being seated, they politely asked Karen for silverware, as there was none on the table. &#8220;She returned and literally slammed silverware items down on the table. This was the beginning of an unbelievable experience,&#8221; they stated in a declaration filed in court.</p>
<p>Karen presented them with a bill which was excessively high. &#8220;We told her that when we deal with the blond waitress, we are charged the price which is shown on the menu. She screamed, &#8220;I am not that blond waitress!!!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;We feel this young lady has some serious, potentially dangerous issues. After that experience, when we would go to Freddie&#8217;s, we looked through the windows to see if she was working. If so, we did not go in as we did not want another bad experience. We are concerned about our safety and do not want her to know where we live or work.&#8221;</p>
<p>Next week: Karen&#8217;s behavior becomes even more bizarre. Stranger yet, was how an unemployment insurance appeals judge so easily ignores the law and his own rules to reward a dangerous person.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2015 21:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>February 28, 2015 • By Dennis Beaver “Over my 25 years of family practice in California’s Central Valley, I’ve always trusted my intuition when making a hiring decision. With two front-office employees retiring, we will soon start searching for replacements. “In this rural area, qualified people are hard to find, and I do not want to miss [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Over my 25 years of family practice in California’s Central Valley, I’ve always trusted my intuition when making a hiring decision. With two front-office employees retiring, we will soon start searching for replacements.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“In this rural area, qualified people are hard to find, and I do not want to miss out on a good hire because of an expensive, time consuming background check. My wife tells me that I am being foolish, that it’s a different America, and what we spend to check someone out could save us a great deal in the long run. Perhaps, but we have never had an issue with dishonesty or problem people in the past.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“After reading your column for years, I will follow your advice. Thanks, “Dr. G.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">Intuition will not prevent a lawsuit</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">If you ask a labor lawyer or private investigator about the wisdom of relying on intuition — a gut feeling — in making a hiring decision, expect an identical response.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">We did just that, speaking with Franklin, Tennessee-based attorney Jennifer Lankford and private investigator Riley Parker of Santa Maria, California. Lankford’s specialty is employment law. She is also a seminar leader for the National Business Institute, one of the nation’s largest providers of continuing legal education.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Dr. G should listen to his wife. It is indeed a different America with larger risks to employers today — especially in the health care field. Those risks didn’t exist when he began his practice. A good feeling about a job applicant is fine, but it’s only a beginning. Your reader has been very lucky,” Parker observes.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Mrs. G is absolutely correct,” commented Lankford, adding, “Employers who fail to conduct thorough background checks are inviting trouble, citing types of lawsuits which, many employers have never heard of, resulting in large jury-verdict awards.&#8221; They include:</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1"><b>Negligent hiring:</b></span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“This is a claim against an employer by an injured party where the employer knew or should have known about an employee’s background which would have shown that person to be dangerous, untrustworthy or otherwise unfit for the job and therefore not hired.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Lawsuits based on Negligent Hiring arise when an employee commits a criminal act, for example, DUI, theft, assault or, identity theft and it is discovered that a simple background check would have revealed factors questioning the person’s suitability for the position.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1"><b>Negligent retention and supervision</b></span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“For the safety of other employees and customers, management cannot turn a blind eye to unfit employees. Upon learning that an employee might have a problem that interferes with the job and/or the welfare of co-workers, there is an obligation of immediately conducting an investigation and then, if warranted, to take corrective action, such as training, reassignment or termination.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“When steps are not taken to protect other employees or the public and harm results, the employer could be found responsible,” she cautions.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1"><b>Be wary of online services — Use a consumer reporting agency</b></span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">And just what are the steps which all employers — that’s right, all employers — need to take?</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">The common sense answer is to run a background on anyone applying for a job. But there are background checks and real background checks.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">The old saying, “If a job is worth doing, it’s worth doing right,” applies here. False economy at this stage — being a cheapskate — can get you sued, as we learned.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">The Internet is filled with ads claiming to “Find Out Anything About Anybody for $25.” Is it possible to do an adequate background search this way on a job applicant? Are they worth it? Or, could using one of these sites get you into trouble?</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">Both Parker and Lankford issued cautionary warnings about many of these services:</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“You just can’t find everything online,” Parker stressed. “Many counties do not provide civil or criminal case information to the major, professional data reporting services, and it often takes a visit to the courthouse to examine court files. Without feet on the ground, an enormous amount of information might be missed.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“The fine print — Terms and Conditions — of many sites admit that they are not Consumer Reporting Agencies and that your results do not comply with the Federal Fair Credit Reporting Act and cannot be used for employment purposes!</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“But who reads the fine print?” Parker correctly asks.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">Lankford agrees, pointing out “serious, potential violations of federal and state discrimination laws which many employers are often completely unaware of when evaluating job applicants in house or using a service which is not a Consumer Reporting Agency.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">So your applicant was a gang member and spent time in the joint for bank robbery but wants to work in your ice cream shop. Certainly you can refuse to hire her, or can you?</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">We’ve got the scoop for you, next time. </span></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>March 14, 2015 • By Dennis Beaver Today’s story will be of special interest to families where mom and dad are financially successful and in a world where parents give their children all the “right” things that money can buy, including designer clothing, attending a private high school, followed by private university, and, of course, while there, [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="p5"><span class="s1">Today’s story will be of special interest to families where mom and dad are financially successful and in a world where parents give their children all the “right” things that money can buy, including designer clothing, attending a private high school, followed by private university, and, of course, while there, a car, an expensive car — even if one is not needed.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">No matter how simple and practical parents would like to be, for some, the downside of monetary success is an odd pressure, a need to belong, to be accepted, to show others, “Just like you, we’ve made it and give our kids all the things we never had growing up.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">And so, for “Tyler,” raised on a steady diet of nice things, after graduation from college, living at home, no job, “thinking about going back to school for an advanced business degree,” driving his birthday present — a new Audi SUV — with a pocket-full of mom&#8217;s and dad’s money, life was good, life was fun — until it wasn’t — a recent Saturday at 2 a.m.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1"><b>Our son phoned us from jail</b></span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Mr. Beaver, my wife and I have read your column for over 20 years in the Hanford Sentinel, and never thought that one day we would be asking for your advice, but that day came last Saturday, when our 24 year-old son, Tyler, called from the county jail.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“He had been booked for DUI after being in a single-vehicle, roll-over accident. There were no other passengers in the new Audi SUV we had just bought him as a birthday present a week earlier! It was a total loss, but all he got was a concussion, and otherwise, not a scratch.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“As my wife and I are well known health-care professionals in town, it would be highly embarrassing if word of this gets out. We have to be in Bakersfield for a neurological consultation of our son’s concussion, and would greatly appreciate meeting with you. We need to know what to expect, and to hear an honest evaluation of the DUI case. Thanks, Dr. Jim.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1"><b>&#8216;You blew almost three times over the limit&#8217;</b></span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">As my paralegal, Anne, and I would learn during our meeting with Tyler and his parents, he finished a late dinner at about 9:30, admitting to “having consumed two vodka cocktails prior to eating.” At midnight, he drove to a bar, meeting friends, had “two vodkas, one bourbon and left at about 1:30 AM.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“What caused your SUV to flip?” we asked.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“There was a vehicle headed straight at me. To avoid a collision, I must have over-corrected, struck the curb, overturned and was knocked-out for some time, regaining consciousness when a CHP officer arrived.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“He asked me if I was ok, and if I would like to take a breathalyzer test, which I did and was informed that the result was almost three times the .08 limit. I was taken to the hospital, blood was drawn, and I spent the next several hours in custody.”</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Based upon what our son consumed,” his father inquired, “how could the blood alcohol level be so high? That would have required over 10 ounces of hard spirits!” There were three possible explanations:</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">(1) The breathalyzer was out of calibration, and gave a false reading — which was not likely.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">(2) If the last drink was consumed within a few minutes of the breath test, the result could easily be influenced by residual mouth-alcohol — which was possible, but also not likely.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">(3) Tyler drank far more than he remembered or wanted to admit.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">Marijuana and alcohol = bad combination</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Do you think that the medical marijuana I use could partly explain the accident? I eat medical marijuana — chocolate squares containing cannabis — for neck pain,” he explained.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">In fact, the combination of both substances has been found in several studies to be synergistic, that is, each potentiates the other. It’s as if more of either was consumed adversely impacting the ability to drive safely.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1"><b>&#8216;Look at mom and dad&#8217;</b></span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“The police report, witness statements and blood test are elements of your son’s DUI arrest which will tell the entire story. If his blood level is more than twice the limit — and I’m betting that it will be over that — he will almost certainly face 10 days in custody, not just work release — picking up leaves — but real time in jail if he pleads or is found guilty after a trial.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“And if that happens, in my experience, the only thing that helps people, just like your son, is that place where no one wants to go.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">To Tyler, I said, “Look at mom and dad. They love you. Someone almost took you away from them. Do you know who?” I asked.</span></p>
<p class="p5"><span class="s1">“Yeah, me,” he answered, sobbing. </span></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>December 21, 2013 • By Dennis Beaver HANFORD — Over the years, two small law firms in this town have generated more questions from readers about attorney fees and billing practices than any other we have seen, and this column has reviewed bills from across the country. For things that are normal overhead — customarily [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>HANFORD — Over the years, two small law firms in this town have generated more questions from readers about attorney fees and billing practices than any other we have seen, and this column has reviewed bills from across the country.</p>
<p>For things that are normal overhead — customarily covered by an hourly fee — these lawyers would charge extra, such as: “Discussing your case with my secretary, 30 minutes. Review of File — 45 minutes. Reviewing your file with my new associate and paralegal, 1 hour.”</p>
<p>On cases where nothing was happening (confirmed by examining the court’s file) “Review of File — 1 hour” would appear on a bill every six weeks. With several clients, over half of the retainer was cannibalized this way.</p>
<p>Now, you don’t want to see your lawyer standing by the side of the road with a sign reading, “Will Give Legal Advice for Food.”  If an attorney is competent and knows how to run a business, then it’s not that difficult to earn a good income. Note: The operative word is earn, not steal.</p>
<p>But when a lawyer’s moral compass is Gordon Gekko, and he or she lives by the motto “Greed is Good,” then clients become victims of predatory billing practices. This column has helped our readers stand up to these guys, saving thousands of dollars, and it would have been easy to conclude that one of them was up to it again when we received this email:</p>
<p>“Our attorney is handling a real estate matter and I phoned to check on how the case was coming along. Later, his bill arrived, and in addition to other items, there was a $150 charge for that telephone conversation. Is it reasonable to be billed for simply asking about the status of our case?”</p>
<p>‘Time is the Lawyer’s Inventory’</p>
<p>As we would learn from New York attorney Seth Rosner — regarded as one of the nation’s most respected experts in legal ethics and professional responsibility — the answer to the question is: Yes &#8211; No &#8211; It Depends.</p>
<p>“That truly is a serious answer,” Rosner explained. “Clients need to know what is happening with their case or, for example, if a draft of their will or contract is ready. Questions which can be answered briefly should not be billed.</p>
<p>“But often it isn’t a question that calls for a yes-or-no type of answer, as the client asks for an explanation, or provides information in response to the lawyer’s request. Before you know it, half an hour is gone,” he points out, and next highlights the difference about law practice from most any other line of work:</p>
<p>“For a moment, let’s think of a Lowe’s or Home Depot, and the enormous inventory of things which they sell to generate the money which pays employee salaries, heat, air conditioning, rent, computers, all the same things which lawyers have to pay for as well.</p>
<p>“But our inventory isn’t stuff; rather, it’s time. We sell time, advice, knowledge and information. Whatever result the client is looking for, the attorney-client relationship is all about time. But often what the client expects goes well beyond what the lawyer understands, so this needs to be addressed when the attorney is hired,” he maintains.</p>
<p>A clear retainer agreement is important</p>
<p>“In general, where attorney fees are expected to exceed a certain amount — for example, $1,000 in California — a written fee agreement is required. This is also known as a retainer or engagement agreement.</p>
<p>“Clients typically have greater expectations for work than what the lawyer thinks. For that reason, the agreement must define as precisely as possible the scope — what services the lawyer will perform — and just as important, services which the lawyer will not, such as filing an appeal. And it is extremely important to state how the bill will be calculated.</p>
<p>“It is critical that the written retainer agreement be in clear language.” Rosner stressed.</p>
<p>“While it is a business transaction, an attorney-client relationship is different from virtually all others. It must be based on truthfulness, trust and placing the client’s interests ahead of the lawyer’s.</p>
<p>“So, an easy-to-understand retainer agreement will often be the key to establishing a relationship that lasts for decades and embody the Lawyer’s Golden Rule:</p>
<p>“Always treat every client as you would wish to be treated if the client was sitting in your chair and you were on the other side of the desk,” Rosner concluded.</p>
<p>And our Hanford reader? Did he ask a question that called for that brief, yes-or-no kind of an answer, or was their discussion far more involved? We’ll tell you next time, as well as focus on how clients can drive their lawyers “sane.”</p>
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<p>“I have been reading your column for years in The Sentinel, and what makes You and the Law so popular is that you tell it like it is, care about the people who contact you and provide common-sense guidance. That’s why I am writing now, Dennis, because I am afraid of my wife’s business plan and need some objective direction.”</p>
<p>Thus began an email from — of all possible occupations — an attorney who we will simply call “Nick.” As we would soon learn, his financial success led to an addiction, but not the type which usually comes to mind.</p>
<p><strong>Months of the year in dangerous countries</strong></p>
<p>“As a personal injury lawyer, I earn close to $500,000 a year, and my wife finds ways of spending most of it, even giving a substantial allowance to her 40-year-old leech of a daughter. She thinks nothing of frequently dropping $10,000 on a credit card in one afternoon for things we do not need, but the really huge amounts of money are spent when — for months at a time — she travels to some of the most dangerous areas in the world.</p>
<p>“Name a revolution or war-torn place on the globe and she has traveled there, often. I’m talking the Congo, Yemen, Somalia, Afghanistan, Pakistan and Syria, to list just a few. She has a college degree in photojournalism and is a highly competent videographer, so her stated reason is the making of documentaries.</p>
<p>“But she hasn’t made a single one! Mentally no longer connected to our life in California, all I hear is how much she is needed by the people there. For so many reasons, this is deeply worrying.</p>
<p>“We are in our late 50s and there is no way to save for retirement if she continues spending this way, because each of these trips — which last for months — can easily cost over $100,000.</p>
<p>“Finally, I manned up and told her this had to end or she could pay for it some other way.”</p>
<p>Nick’s wife soon found “that other” way.</p>
<p><strong>I’m in the marijuana business with our gardener!</strong></p>
<p>“Two weeks later, she took me out to the backyard and announced that, with our gardener, she had gone into the marijuana business! There, in a somewhat covered part of the yard, she showed me rows of cannabis plants — it was a real pot grow! Then she took out her medical marijuana card, obtained from a Los Angeles doctor.</p>
<p>“‘See, I got the card, legally purchased the plants, and we can probably make well over $150,000 a year this way.</p>
<p>“‘So you don’t have to worry about financing my trips anymore. Oh, and I also spoke with a lawyer in Berkeley who told me that this is perfectly legal,’ she told me in an arrogant tone of voice.</p>
<p>“Dennis, she also reads and likes your column. I do not want to lose our house and my reputation because of her addiction to money.</p>
<p>“What is the law? Her business plan can’t possibly be legal — or can it? And please hurry, because I do not want to see a bunch of guys wearing DEA jackets yanking plants out of our yard!”</p>
<p><strong>I hope his wife enjoys wearing jailhouse orange jumpsuits</strong></p>
<p>You and the Law contacted San Diego attorney Michael Cindrich, who is an advocate for the responsible use of medical marijuana and viewed as one of the state’s top lawyers in this field. When we ran the facts of this case by him, his response was clear: Don’t!</p>
<p>“Tell the lawyer’s wife to find some other way of earning money, because this could get the couple arrested, their home seized by the DEA, and he would no doubt face disciplinary action by the state bar — possibly losing his license to practice law.</p>
<p>“While under federal law, it is still illegal to possess, cultivate or sell marijuana, in California, and some other states, for medical purposes, possession of relatively small amounts may be legal,” he pointed out.</p>
<p>“This is a highly complex, changing area of the law, and no one size-fits-all answer can be given as to how much or where you may legally possess marijuana. The law is different, depending upon which state, city and county you are in,” he said.</p>
<p>“Where the motive is profit — which is exactly what the lawyer’s wife has in mind — this alone makes the venture illegal,” Cindrich concluded.</p>
<p>To that, we add something that no one else mentioned: the risk of blackmail. That’s right, blackmail, extortion — by the gardener:</p>
<p>“Hey, counselor, I need a little loan, and by the way, nobody knows about what’s growing in your backyard. And you do want to keep it that way, right?”</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jan 2013 08:17:21 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Is there a window of opportunity — an age or grade level in school — where a kid headed for trouble has what will likely be the last chance to be helped and steered in the right direction?</p>
<p>Hanford School Resource Officer Per Westlund knows the answer to that question only too well. For him, “the time frame is junior high school, at the latest.”</p>
<p>“It is easier to intervene in the life of a junior high school student than a kid on the way to real trouble at high school, who, in his or her own mind, knows it all,” he said.</p>
<p>A healthy fear of consequences</p>
<p>“Working together with school personnel — and if we are lucky, responsible parents — we can often positively influence the attitude and direction of a troubled junior high student. At this level, they are still dependent on family, tend to have more respect and will listen to adults in general, and have a healthy fear of consequences.</p>
<p>“At junior high, these kids have not usually developed anti-authority attitudes, and someone wearing a police uniform gets their attention. SROs at the high school level have different challenges, and in many ways, a tougher job than mine.”</p>
<p>In a 15-year career as a police officer, Westlund has spent the past four as an SRO assigned to Hanford’s JFK and Woodrow Wilson junior high schools.</p>
<p>“Officer Westlund’s own background makes him especially well suited to the job of an SRO, where knowing how to communicate with students is critical, earning their trust and confidence, which can quite literally be life-saving qualities, keeping kids in school and away from the wrong people,” said Jason Strickland, principal at JFK.</p>
<p>“I have lived in the United States the past 25 years and come from a small Swedish town where, at an early age I realized just how important family and education is for future success,” Westlund said. “The values of my little town in Sweden are also very much a part of what I like about Hanford, which really is Small Town America. But today’s America is very different for parents, and a challenge for many families to raise kids in the best atmosphere.”</p>
<p>‘Don’t try to be your child’s &#8216;best friend’</p>
<p>To the Hanford SRO, that “best atmosphere” starts with parents who aren’t afraid “to be real parents, not trying to be their child’s best friend.”</p>
<p>“Growing up in Sweden, I was more fearful of what would happen to me at home if I got in trouble at school. A problem today, recognized by educators and law enforcement, is that too many parents refuse or simply do not know how to be parents. They want to be their children’s best friend and to be liked. In this environment, children can grow up without the concept of respect, not just for their parents, but for adults and people in positions of authority, in general.</p>
<p>“It is not through buying your kids everything they ask for that you are going to raise well-adjusted members of society. ‘No’ has its place. In order to succeed, children must be taught one of life’s most important lessons: You have to earn what you get.</p>
<p>“All children manipulate their parents. It’s hard-wired from birth, a tool in the psychology of survival tool kit we are born with. But you can raise a failure by saying ‘yes’ when you should be saying ‘no,’ hoping that they will listen to you, because you are so nice. That is giving in to manipulation,and teaching the child dangerous lessons on how to make one’s way in the world.”</p>
<p>JFK’s Strickland agrees.</p>
<p>“Parenting which rewards a young child’s non-stop demands often leads to huge behavioral issues once at junior high school, when children are in a more rigorous educational and social setting. Suddenly they hear ‘no’ from their teachers, are required to come to school at the proper time and complete homework.</p>
<p>“Those who have been allowed to avoid the rules are headed for academic and social frustration, disappointment and anger. As we see these signs as early as the sixth grade, you come to a realization of just how critical a role parents have in their child’s lives, how parenting skills can dictate their child’s future.”</p>
<p>(Next week, we’ll examine that recipe and its ingredients.)</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>November 2, 2013 • By Dennis Beaver It’s a phone call that Hanford police Officer John Henderson takes no pleasure in making — when he informs a parent that “Their teenage son is in jail, caught along with other gang members in a burglary.” From experience, he knows the reaction to expect from most parents: [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>It’s a phone call that Hanford police Officer John Henderson takes no pleasure in making — when he informs a parent that “Their teenage son is in jail, caught along with other gang members in a burglary.”</p>
<p>From experience, he knows the reaction to expect from most parents:</p>
<p>“That’s impossible! Our son would never do a thing like that and if he was involved something criminal, we would certainly have known it! You’ve got it wrong — it’s just not possible!</p>
<p>“But it’s the parents who have it wrong, because they haven’t known much about their kids for years. These parents don’t know who their kids are hanging out with and where they are at night, or they would have seen warning signs that trouble was only a matter of time.</p>
<p>“Children who come from a loving family, with lots of parental involvement, with structure  are not attracted by gangs because they already have what gangs give their young members: family, protection and affection, but at a price, at what can be a deadly price,” he cautions.</p>
<p>Obvious warning signs</p>
<p>Henderson points out that “strong indicators of trouble fall into several easily identifiable categories, odd clothing preferences by far the easiest to spot, followed by significant changes in behavior and a lack of interest in the things enjoyed before, such as sports.</p>
<p>“Is there a sudden change in their interests? For example, before they loved soccer, and now they hate the sport. How are they now with their family? If before, they were close and loving, but now wanting nothing to do with family, you’ve got to find out why, because experience shows this to be a sign that of a gang member in the making.</p>
<p>“Clothing is one of the most obvious factors. A lot of parents are naive or so busy that they won’t or can’t pay attention to what their children are wearing. So if your son is wearing the same colors, same thing every day, that would be odd and requires investigation by the parents.</p>
<p>“A number of solid colors are associated with many gangs. If, at age 13 or 14 you have a kid who refuses to wear blue or grey, you must find out why, as these are often colors of an opposing gang.</p>
<p>“On a school binder, look for certain letters to be crossed out which represent the name of an opposing gang. Have you seen numbers, initials or nicknames written in an Old English-style letters, or in handwriting that is difficult to read, or is similar to graffiti? If so, investigate.”</p>
<p>Privacy? Forget it!</p>
<p>“It is amazing how many parents fear going through their children’s backpack or desk and dresser drawers. Children need protection — from themselves. Items in or on their backpack often suggest that things aren’t right, for example, a change of clothing where they leave home dressed one way and then are going to change into the gang colors later that day.</p>
<p>“Look for the numbers 13 and 14 as well as an odd pattern of dots. These things should not be ignored.</p>
<p>“Kids can be very good at hiding items they do not want parents to find, so while they are at school, look in their desk, drawers, between the mattress and box-spring, any possible hiding place. If you find money, expensive electronics, anything which you know your child could never afford, this isn’t a bad dream. It is the beginning of a nightmare and you should speak with law enforcement for advice on how to proceed.”</p>
<p>Sudden fall in grades</p>
<p>“If there is a sudden fall in grades, while not evidence of gang membership by itself, it must be investigated. But when you are informed by the school that your son:</p>
<p>• Isn’t just disrespectful, but has become openly hostile, shouting at teachers:</p>
<p>• His grades are horrible;</p>
<p>• He is hanging around with some pretty bad kids.</p>
<p>“Then parents must get involved, and find out what is going on, for these are warning signs you cannot ignore. To do so only allows the situation to worsen,” Henderson maintains.</p>
<p>Spend time with your children</p>
<p>Henderson has seen a lot in his 12 years as a police officer. He knows what happens when parents are not involved in their kids’ lives. He concluded our interview with this message for families everywhere:</p>
<p>“Play with your children. Spend time with them. I get home at 7 p.m., but still play with my kids for an hour or so, until they go to bed. We watch ‘Dancing with the Stars’ and if my 3-year-old wants to dance for an hour, that’s what we do.</p>
<p>“That’s how you interact. That’s what keeps your children out of a gang.”</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>September 01, 2012 (Original publish date) • By Dennis Beaver “I’ve always been a big boy, but then it was clear that I had to do something about my out of control weight,” Greg’s email stated. “I’ve got a real problem. I’ll be in Bakersfield in a few days, and need to talk with you.” Shortly [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>“I’ve always been a big boy, but then it was clear that I had to do something about my out of control weight,” Greg’s email stated. “I’ve got a real problem. I’ll be in Bakersfield in a few days, and need to talk with you.”</p>
<p>Shortly thereafter, on one of the hottest August days of 2012, a worried 35-year-old man walked into our office, holding a diet soft drink. With a big smile, the ex-Navy resident of Lemoore said. “I always thought these were for sissies, but then, about 6 months ago, my doctor told me something that, in my mind, only happens to other people.”</p>
<p>“Your family loves and depends on you, Greg, but you are killing yourself. It is difficult for you to walk because you weigh over 350 pounds, have high blood pressure and are a Type 2 diabetic. You have to cut out the excess calories, the sugar, the junk, get real and start exercising at home. I want you to buy a treadmill and walk till you almost drop!”</p>
<p>“My doctor also told me that I was becoming grotesque and reminded him of the horribly obese people you see in Costco or Sam’s Club, shopping carts filled with chips.</p>
<p>“But I am one of those people, Mr. Beaver, and I was so scared by what the doctor told me,” my reader whispered.</p>
<p>“That day I researched websites and found a treadmill which I bought in the sporting goods section at a Hanford department store for $412. I used it every day, walking and running as much as I could and lost weight! But then, the treadmill just fell apart while I was running on it!”</p>
<p>“The store refuses to do a thing, saying that the 90-day parts and labor warranty has expired. They will only sell me a new one. But I don’t have that money. Can you help me?”</p>
<p>So many overweight people are in denial, refusing to help themselves, and then here is a guy who is trying and was almost in tears. Of course, we would help, and the first step was exercise equipment education.</p>
<p>Beware of exercise equipment websites — read the warranty before buying</p>
<p>If you ask any speciality fitness equipment retailer to name one of America’s premier manufacturers of commercial and home exercise equipment — and we asked several — you’ll hear: True Fitness Technology, based in St. Louis, Mo.</p>
<p>Their treadmills are considered as among the best available. True Fitness put us in touch with Regional Account Manager Brian Jamison. His advice is relevant and important to anyone looking to buy home exercise equipment, especially treadmills.</p>
<p>“Your reader is like so many people across America who have spent good money for what amounts to poor-quality exercise equipment, often as the direct result of recommendations from what are known as affiliate websites.</p>
<p>“Currently, there is no government body which fairly tests or evaluates exercise equipment from an unbiased overview. Many of the websites on the Internet today are paid by manufacturers to misinform the public as to the quality of their products through fictitious ratings. Our company does not sponsor these sites,” he points out.</p>
<p>“It is a very sad and very challenging part of our industry today, as there are so many people who rely on the Internet for good information, and in the fitness industry, it is not there,” Jamison stressed.</p>
<p>“A treadmill can easily become the most-used appliance in your household. Buy a high-quality treadmill, and it is virtually impossible to abuse it. It will not fall apart. But a poorly made product will not last. Like many first-time buyers of home exercise equipment, Greg did not know what questions to ask of the salesperson, or how to match his own needs to the treadmill he purchased.</p>
<p>“Greg had very specific needs in a treadmill, given his 350-pound weight and doctor’s orders to exercise daily. If he had visited a store that specializes in home exercise equipment and met with a well-trained exercise consultant, you would never have had this story,” Jamison maintains.</p>
<p>“But hardly anyone gives a thought about the warranty, and that is a giveaway as to the quality and value of the treadmill,” he points out.</p>
<p>“If you see a 90-day warranty, run in the opposite direction, as this is an indication of an inferior piece of exercise equipment. The better manufacturers have a lifetime warranty on the frame and five to ten years parts warranty.”</p>
<p>Next time: We look at the right way to find exercise equipment, what it will cost, and tell you why Greg is smiling more, and losing weight, on the new, quality treadmill the department store was only too happy to provide after our little talk.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>May 26, 2012 (Original publish date) • By Dennis Beaver Returning home from a day trip in the early hours of the morning to water everywhere set the stage for a rare positive email from Becky, a retired high school English teacher living in Visalia with her husband. Both are 85 years young and received what [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>Returning home from a day trip in the early hours of the morning to water everywhere set the stage for a rare positive email from Becky, a retired high school English teacher living in Visalia with her husband. Both are 85 years young and received what can only be described as exceptional customer service.</p>
<p>“Your article about the disaster restoration company and its dishonest customer got our attention, in part because we recently had our own horrible experience with a burst water pipe, and were so fortunate with the high degree of service provided both by our homeowners insurance claims adjuster and the damage restoration company.</p>
<p>“Our water pressure regulator failed, causing a section of pipe to explode. Water pipes coming into most properties in our neighborhood are huge — 2-inch diameter — which means that pressure is very high and you must have a regulator. Testing your home’s water pressure is so important and easy. A gauge costs less than $20. Eighty psi or under is what you must have, we learned.</p>
<p>“After shutting the main water valve, we phoned homeowners claims and in less than 90 minutes, two angels arrived: our claims adjuster and the damage restoration supervisor with his crew. It was 3 in the morning!”</p>
<p>An unexpected suggestion</p>
<p>“Our house was inspected, lots of photos were taken and the supervisor was thorough and took plenty of time in explaining how they find water damage by using high-tech cameras which see moisture behind walls, and under the floor, to help avoid mold issues down the road.</p>
<p>“We signed a number of contracts and other documents after our adjuster gave her approval. This was all new to us — you don’t have busted water pipes every day, if ever, and who reads a homeowners insurance policy before a loss?”</p>
<p>“And then, something happened which was completely unexpected and made a reality out the TV commercials which tell you how wonderful it is to have this or that homeowners insurance.</p>
<p>“Our adjuster asked us to sit at the kitchen table, and in such a reassuring tone of voice, told us the following:</p>
<p>“Fortunately, water appears to have run for just a few hours, not days, but it is still going to be a real job in drying your home and preventing mold. The drying process requires using powerful fans, and possibly opening up certain walls, depending upon where the water settled. This means noise, a lot of noise and real inconvenience, with the crew coming in and out, removing furniture, carpets, anything that got wet and needs to be dried.</p>
<p>“Your insurance has a very good additional living expense provision, so you do not have to remain here while work is being done. I will help you pack what you need right now, and book you into a nice hotel downtown. In fact, I’ve already reserved your room. We will cover food and other related expenses during the time your home cannot safely be lived in.</p>
<p>“Mr. Beaver, at that time, I began to cry. Our adjuster truly was the angel we needed right at that moment. It took about three weeks to repair the damage, and we just could not be more satisfied with the way everyone dealt with us. We heard from the restoration company often and always did what they asked of us to help put things back to normal. I know that you hear more complaints than compliments, but I’ll bet our experience is the rule and not the exception.”</p>
<p>Staying involved in the process leads to a better outcome</p>
<p>“Dennis, this is a great story, and your readers had such a positive experience, in part, because they were involved in the restoration process,” commented Tampa-based Pete Consigli, a friend of this column and a national authority in restoration and damage repair.</p>
<p>“The property owner has an obligation to their loss. Never just turn it over to the company and walk away. You must be involved, in the loop. It is your home and you need to stay involved in the process, at whatever level you feel comfortable, to assure that your property is restored back to pre-loss condition,” he observes.</p>
<p>“This story also illustrated something that happens every day, but does not get the attention merited. And that’s the important role of claims adjusters at times like this.</p>
<p>“In the 35 years that I have been in this industry, your reader’s experience truly is the rule, and not the exception.</p>
<p>“The most successful claims adjusters will be good communicators and have compassion for the insured. And the same thing can be said for the restoration crew that comes to your house, just like with Becky, at 3 in the morning.”</p>
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